I’m a sex columnist, media commentator and YouTuber who’s dedicated the last decade of my career to educating people about female sexual pleasure. 

I’ve appeared on national and global TV, including iTV’s This Morning and Channel 7’s The Morning Show, been resident sexpert on KROQ’s Stryker & Klein Show and Australia’s Mike E & Emma Show, and written for The Washington Post, HuffPost, New York Post, and Australia’s biggest news site, News.com.au.

And believe it or not, I’ve been exactly where you’ve been.

I used to have no idea what I desired or enjoyed sexually, how to reliably orgasm with a partner, fire up my libido, or communicate in the bedroom.

To be really honest, I didn’t even truly understand how my own vulva worked.

Sex education made me feel like my vagina was a shameful thing to be kept secret, and taught me pleasure didn’t belong to me.

I learned boys had boners and wet dreams, and girls experienced pain and discomfort – from period cramps and childbirth, to being warned our “first time” would probably hurt.

Like most women, I performed my way through sex, copying what I saw in porn – the only resource I had to turn to at the time.

Every back arch and moan was part of a carefully choreographed dance I’d memorized. But while I became good at doing all the things I’d learned men liked, even to the point I started making super-viral YouTube tutorials about it, I felt empty and dissatisfied.

If you can relate to any of this, I’m here to reassure you, it’s NOT your fault, and you’re most certainly not alone.

No one teaches us how to have great sex, or about the powerful, myriad ways people with vulvas can experience pleasure.

We don’t learn how to maintain intimacy in our relationships when things like work, stress, kids, health issues and the monotony of life get in the way; even though sex is one of the most important aspects of a healthy, thriving long-term romantic relationship, and essential to fostering deep connection with a partner.

Which is why I’ve spent the last 10 years speaking to couples about their sex lives, interviewing adult actors, sex workers and professional dominatrixes, visiting brothels and BDSM dungeons, and venturing inside the world of sex parties, while reading every study and research paper I could get my hands on about the science of pleasure for people with vulvas..

Today I have over a million dedicated readers, subscribers and online followers, many who’ve used the knowledge I’ve garnered in my career and personal life to completely overhaul their sex lives and relationships and discover their true selves along the way.

I now specialize in helping couples over the age of 30, all the way to 70 and 80, have the best sex of their lives – game-changing, bed-breaking, reliably orgasmic sex, in just 60 days.

And I want the same for you…

No matter what your current situation is, my process simply works.